To give a concrete implementation of what @dave_thompson_085 said, this does the trick - it extracts the public key from each of the certificate and the private key, then calculates their md5 hash, allowing you to compare them easily:
# openssl x509 -pubkey -in mydomain-ecc.crt -noout | openssl md5
(stdin)= 77e16c92c1a4907c7da34e72a1c5b879
# openssl pkey -pubout -in mydomain-ecc.key | openssl md5
(stdin)= 77e16c92c1a4907c7da34e72a1c5b879
Since this question was posted, an answer has been added to the question linked by the OP, providing a one-liner that will also work with ECC certs (using pkey instead of rsa), but it doesn't provide visible confirmation.